Living with A Chronic Illness

It Is ME Awareness Week 2020

As many of you will know, my Daughter has ME, and today is the start of ME Awareness week 2020.  I will start my week of posts by talking about what ME is.

What is ME?

I will start at the beginning and explain what Myalgic Encephalomyelitis or ME for short is. ME is a long-term chronic, fluctuating neurological condition that causes symptoms affecting many body systems.  Most commonly the nervous and immune systems. ME affects an estimated 250,000 people in the UK and around 17 million people world-wide. With the current Corona Virus, it is feared that more and more people will suffer with ME.

Everyone who suffers with ME will experience different symptoms.  Some are completely bedbound, some can do normal everyday things in moderation.  Everyone is different, but this is an invisible illness, although one of the tell-tale signs myself and a lot of other parents see is that dark rings around the eyes.

What are they symptoms?

Everyone who suffers with ME has a different pattern of illness and symptoms, some get worse over time, others stay the same or improve.

The one common symptom is the feeling tired. The easiest way I found to understand this is think when you have been your most tired after a heavy night out, when you have been ill and magnetise that by 10 and you will be somewhere near.  Where we can just sleep it off, those who suffer with ME can not it is with them 24/7 and no amount of rest or sleep will make it better.

Other Symptoms

Feeling generally unwell

  • Having flu-like symptoms
  • Recurrent sore throat


  • aching muscles and/or joints
  • nerve pains or pins and needles
  • headache or migraine
  • twitching muscles or cramp
  • abdominal pain
  • chest pain
  • back pain

Sleep disturbance

  • unrefreshing sleep
  • difficulty getting off to sleep
  • waking for long periods during the night
  • light sleep
  • sleep reversal
  • sleeping for a long period

Problems with the nervous system

  • Poor temperature control
  • dizziness on standing or sitting
  • hypersensitivity to noise or light
  • sweating
  • loss of balance
  • poor circulation

Digestive problems

  • nausea
  • loss of appetite
  • indigestion
  • excessive wind or bloating
  • cramps
  • alternating diarrhoea or constipation
  • irritable bowel syndrome

Intolerance and increased sensitivity

  • bright lights
  • noise
  • odours
  • some foods
  • some medication
  • alcohol

As you can see there it is quite a vast range of symptoms.  Some sufferers will suffer with more than others.

What causes ME

There are many ways in which you can become unwell with ME

  • Virus – Glandular Fever, Chickenpox, meningitis, labyrinthitis and now Corona Virus
  • Immunisations – some people who have not been ill can react to an immunisation

I hope I have explained what ME is and the various symptoms that ME sufferers can have.  Tomorrow I will be talking about how my Daughter C became ill and her symptoms.

I have spoken about C’s illness right from the start and shared our story over the past 4 years.  If you would like to read up more you can find all the posts here

It Is ME Awareness Week 2020

About Author

I am Sam and owner of StressedMum, I hope you enjoyed reading my latest post, I always love to read comments from my readers


  • Samantha
    11th May 2020 at 2:56 pm

    Thanks so much for sharing this, it’s always good to raise awareness of things like this. Really hope you and your daughter are both doing well. Sam – Coco Travels

    • admin
      11th May 2020 at 4:35 pm

      Thank you and if I can share the awareness and let others understand what the illness is I am happy

  • Sim @ Sim's Life
    11th May 2020 at 3:01 pm

    I will hold my hands up and admit that I didn’t really know much about ME before reading this post. So many symptoms are linked with ME! I hope you are all having a good start to the week!x Sim x

    • admin
      11th May 2020 at 4:34 pm

      A lot of medical professionals don’t know much about ME either so you are not alone. With Awareness weeks it gives the chance to share what the illness is and how it affects all our lives

    • Yaya
      12th May 2020 at 6:00 pm

      This is a wonderful post Sam about a condition that often doesn’t get the understanding it deserves. I will share!

      • admin
        12th May 2020 at 6:03 pm

        Thank you, it is one of those illnesses that is overlooked

  • Yeah Lifestyle
    11th May 2020 at 9:18 pm

    Thank you for sharing about ME, I personally don’t know anyone who has it, so it is good to be informed about what it is and its symptoms

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 10:02 am

      The sad thing is they reckon that there will be more cases after the CV.

  • Aaron K Green
    11th May 2020 at 9:31 pm

    This was a very useful post that gave a lot of detailed and helpful information about the condition. Thank you for sharing.

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 10:01 am

      Thank you, I am writing a week of posts so felt natural to write about what ME actually is x

  • Rebecca Smith
    11th May 2020 at 11:32 pm

    Still so many people don’t know about ME and what it can do so it is super important to raise awareness for it. I’m glad you mentioned that it was ME Awareness week!

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 10:00 am

      Thank you, it is important as it is an illness that is not understood by the medical profession as well x

  • Liam | Whatthedadsaid
    12th May 2020 at 9:30 am

    A Great article and post, one of my friends suffers from ME and it can be a struggle, it affects so much and can be difficult to balance your day and what your doing etc

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 9:58 am

      Thank you, ME is such a misunderstood illness I am sorry your friend suffers with it as well x

  • Rhian Westbury
    12th May 2020 at 10:21 am

    Thanks for sharing about ME, pretty much all I know about it is through your stories of your daughters journey. It definitely needs to have more awareness raised around it x

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 12:01 pm

      Thank you, it does need more awareness and I try as much as I can to raise awareness but even medical professionals dont understand or choose not to understand it

  • Sarah | Boo Roo and Tigger Too
    12th May 2020 at 11:31 am

    It is such a life-changing illness, affecting almost every part of someone’s life. I have friends who have ME and it can be so difficult to see the challenges they face.

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 12:00 pm

      It is a life changing illness and one many don’t understand, even the easiest thing of getting up and getting dressed is a major thing to them

  • Natasha Mairs
    12th May 2020 at 11:48 am

    When I was a teenager I had a friend that had ME, but never knew there could be this many symptoms with it.

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 11:58 am

      The main symptom is the chronic fatigue, as even the slightest thing can tire them so easily. But yes there are many symptoms, C’s main symptoms are the fatigue, headaches and pains

  • Rebecca Jones
    12th May 2020 at 1:03 pm

    thank you for describing all the complex symptoms of ME. I really hope there is more research to understand what causes it – and more support for patients.
    Much love to you, your daughter and your family.

    • admin
      12th May 2020 at 1:44 pm

      Thank you, support is what patients need it is a constant battle every time you need to speak to GP x

  • Eva Katona
    12th May 2020 at 9:37 pm

    I didn’t know about this until now. Thanks for raising awareness.

    • admin
      13th May 2020 at 10:24 am

      Thank you glad it help to understand about the illness x

  • michelle twin mum
    12th May 2020 at 10:12 pm

    Thanks for such a good explanation of ME, it is a hard illness to understand if you don’t have it, but I know it can be really debilitating. Mich x

    • admin
      13th May 2020 at 10:23 am

      Thank you I am glad that I was able to bring some understanding of the illness x

  • Melanie williams
    13th May 2020 at 11:32 am

    Such an amazing post to raise awareness especially at a time like this when this virus also has an impact x

    • admin
      13th May 2020 at 1:26 pm

      It is important to raise awareness and it is thought that many more cases of ME will come about following the current virus

  • Kristina
    13th May 2020 at 2:13 pm

    Thanks for spreading awareness, I for one didn’t know of this so it was very eye opening reading about it!

    • admin
      13th May 2020 at 3:20 pm

      I am glad that you have a little more understanding into the illness x

  • Kara Guppy
    14th May 2020 at 1:06 pm

    I never realised that ME caused so many problems or that something as simple as an injection can cause it

    • admin
      14th May 2020 at 1:10 pm

      This is why more awareness is needed, it really is something very common but very unkown about x

  • Jenni
    14th May 2020 at 10:28 pm

    This is a really good post for explaining simply what ME is, I’ve never really understood. It’s sad that the corona virus could mean more people getting it

    • admin
      15th May 2020 at 9:59 am

      It is a very misunderstood illness, and it is thought that some people will continue on to have ME

  • Michelle
    15th May 2020 at 7:44 pm

    Really interesting post about a condition which is sadly overlooked!

    • admin
      18th May 2020 at 10:07 am

      Thank you it is an illness which is overlooked which is why I have dediated this week to sharing about the illness x


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