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How to help your child make new friends

Starting a new school and making new friends can be a worrying time for children and their parents too. Although some children are naturally sociable, many children suffer from shyness. This can hinder their ability to develop new friendships. Fortunately, this is something that parents can help their children to overcome, using a few simple techniques. Manor Lodge, a private school in Hertfordshire have compiled a list of tips to help you help!

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Invite new friends round

Play dates and trips to the park can be invaluable when it comes to helping your child build friendships. One on one time can be exactly what children need. To be able to get to know each other and establish common ground and activities that they enjoy together. Without the pressure of the rest of the class being around.

Build confidence

It can sometimes be difficult to speak to new people or step outside our comfort zones at any age. Help your child to develop their social skills and work on their confidence from a young age by challenging them to simple things such as ordering the cake at the coffee shop, speaking to the sales assistant when buying school uniform or simply bringing them into your own conversations with other people when out and about.

After school clubs

Extracurricular activities are a great opportunity to meet new people a chance for your child to make friends with people that already have something in common with them, perfect!

Stand back!

Children will naturally gravitate towards people they already know rather than stepping outside their comfort zone and making new friends. If you, an older sibling or any familiar face is in the room it could be hindering their confidence. Try as much as possible to step back and let them really build on new friendships by simply not being in the same room as them all the time!

How to help your child make new friends

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16 Comments

  • Crickette, The Things I Have to Say
    16th September 2019 at 9:01 am

    Stand back. I think parents have to set their kids up to meet other kids, but they have to stand back and let them make friends on their own terms. That’s what my parents did.

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    • admin
      16th September 2019 at 12:18 pm

      That is the best thing to do as a parent, but at times as a parent you do need to just step in and help

      Reply
  • Viano Dee
    16th September 2019 at 11:27 pm

    These are all great tips to help one’s kids make friends. It’s usually very difficult for shy kids. These tips would definitely go a long way in helping them socialize.

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    • admin
      17th September 2019 at 11:19 am

      Shy kids do find it harder but in time they do come out of their shells and make friends

      Reply
  • Michael
    17th September 2019 at 2:36 am

    Laughed on the stand back but true. It will happen naturally and I agree that it will be more comfortable for them when you give them the space.

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    • admin
      17th September 2019 at 11:19 am

      They need their space to do things as we all do, and easier when Mum is not there pushing

      Reply
  • Karla
    17th September 2019 at 2:41 am

    I totally agree with the last one. Parents need to step back once in a while. I taught preschoolers before and kids make friends when the parents are not there to watch them. One of my rules is for parents to stop lurking on the windows. LOL.

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    • admin
      17th September 2019 at 11:18 am

      I was never a window lurker, luckily my daughter was fine and never needed me

      Reply
  • Melanie williams
    17th September 2019 at 10:56 am

    Really good tips here. Stand back is a good one and after school clubs mixed with confidence is a winner xx

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    • admin
      17th September 2019 at 11:17 am

      These do help as they do need to do this for themselves just have us for the odd moments they need that bit of help

      Reply
  • maysz
    17th September 2019 at 12:21 pm

    I’m not a parent yet but this tips would help a lot that I can apply to my future kids šŸ™‚

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    • admin
      17th September 2019 at 12:36 pm

      A lot of it is common sense, but as a parent your childs happiness comes before anything else

      Reply
  • Khushboo
    17th September 2019 at 2:47 pm

    That’s a informative and helpful post for the parents. You covered all.important points

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    • admin
      17th September 2019 at 3:44 pm

      Thank you am glad you found the post informative

      Reply
  • Clarice
    19th September 2019 at 5:53 pm

    Love your reminder that it is very important to stand back. I also notice this with my daughter. If I am around, she would want to sit beside me. If I leave, that’s the time she’ll start playing with the other kids.

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    • admin
      19th September 2019 at 6:02 pm

      It is hard as a parent to stand back, but we all have to do it and let them make their own friends and only stepping in if we really have to

      Reply

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