Each week, I write a round up post of discussing my previous week, as only a menopausal mum can. This is where I catch up on previous weeks, and chat about what has been going on. Now to catch up with my Diary Of A Menopausal Mum – 07/02/2022, how has your week been?
Table of Contents
Health
Poor C is still suffering with her abdominal pains. I went onto 111 online last Tuesday who advised me to speak to our GP. Not holding much hope, I rang our GP and spoke to someone who advised she would speak to a GP and call me back.
I then got a text and a phone call to say we had a face to face appointment. The Dr was lovely (not one we had seen before), who agreed it was likely to be appendicitis and referred us straight up to A&E.
We sat there hours waiting to be seen, poor C doubled up and not able to get comfortable in the seats. After nearly 5 hours, we were told that the blood tests showed her inflammation markers were high and there was definitely something going on. They needed to see an Ultra Sound Scan, which they could not do through A&E. I explained our GP had put one through urgently about 2 weeks ago, and she is just getting worse. The only option was a CT scan which they refused due to the radiation. So we now just have to sit and wait, our GP surgery have chased his as urgent again.
It is affecting her education again, as had a call to collect her on Thursday as she was in so much pain.
My Spending Spree
My sofa was finally delivered over the weekend, and I am not sure about it. the colour is great, but it is not slouchy comfortable. I know it is new and takes time to settle in. I have cushions arriving today which will hopefully help.
C’s new bed is now up and she loves it. Her old bed was years old and a metal frame, which she kept complaining of being noisy. This bed seems a lot higher as well, but not had any complaints so far.
Trips and Holidays
Last week, I spoke about a hotel stay we had for my Husbands birthday in January. It was not cheap and between us and our friends the night away cost £1000 including stay, dinner and drinks. The staffs attitude was disgusting, from reception to the restaurant staff and Manager.
Usually, I would just write a review on Trip Advisor. Whilst on Trip Advisor I saw so many more reviews with similar experiences. Instead of writing another review, I went straight to the CEO and told him of our experience. I did not think much would come of it, but thought for the prices they charge, the customer service did not match up to it.
He responded and passed my comments to the General Manager and offered a free nights stay, with dinner and breakfast. We took this last Thursday, and they went over the top to ensure our stay was a good one. I was welcomed by name from the same Manager who was smirking at us on our previous stay. We had extras in the room, and amazing service.
It was a shame that they could not have done this on our first visit, as we were perfectly happy with the room.
What I have been loving
I have shared this on my Valentines Day Gift Guide, and love this so much I had to share it with you again. The Wikinson Sword Intuition 4 in 1, has to be the best thing I have used in a long time.
Women of a certain age, experience change in their hair growth. One thing the Menopause has done for me is facial hair, which really does upset me.
It comes with 4 attachments, one being for facial hair, and it also has an attachment for shaping eyebrows.
I already have a device for my eyebrows, but found this one easier to use, I think because it has a thicker base.
The facial hair remover, which is bottom right of the picture is amazing. So much quicker and easier than my normal go to, and leaves skin looking and feeling hair free.
If you are suffering these effects of Menopause, I definitely recommend treating yourself to one of these. Plus you can use it for your underarm hair and bikini line.
How has your week been?
Oh bless your daughter, how utterly painful. Abdominal past in the worst, I had investigations for a year into mine and it turned out to be a big gallstone and it was more painful than labour, it was awful so I hope your daughter gets hers sorted soon. So nice to get new furniture isn’t it. We haven’t done for years but when we did get a new matress it was amazing.
Honestly, I am so stressed if it is appendicitis, luckily we have a cancellation scan tomorrow which should tell us what is going on at least
It just goes to show how much a negative review matters to a company, but you are right, it’s a shame they couldnt accommodate you better the first time.
I do usually look at reviews, you always get negative reviews from someone, which is usually something picky. This seemed a common thing looking through. I just hope now they do start to change as it is a shame as it is a lovely hotel
Wow, some interesting thoughts!
I really hope C is better soon – it sounds so frustrating! I am glad you had a better time in the hotel the second time around.
Thank you, sadly until we get a scan done and know what is going on we will not know what the treatment is
What a run around they are giving you with C’s health issues! Glad you got better service at the hotel the second time!
Believe me, I feel they know my number and voice now as I keep chasing them. It was a much nicer stay this time
It is ridiculous that the A&E will not operate on your daughter if they suspect appendicitis. This is so dangerous, and waiting until it bursts is just not acceptable. I can’t believe they are acting like this!
I know, and sadly ours is not the only story of this, one of my parents friends granddaughters is going through the same. I decided to go to a different hospital to the one they went to and it is the same story. I am now trying to arrange a private scan to speed things up. My MP emailed me last night and I replied informing him of this and how dangerous it can be and things need to change. He is also leader of the Lib Dems so hoping he will take this on board. We have seen him previously regarding C’s education and he does listen and get things done
My week is a mix of emotions for positive and a bit of not so good side. Nonetheless, I am thankful for everyday blessings – as always!
Sorry you are having a mixed week, but you are right to be thankful for the positives
I really hope C gets her abdominal pain sorted, it seems like one step forward and three steps back x
It is a nightmare and no news again today, she can not even go in and do her course as when she stands she is in a lot of pain and clutching her side and can not sit comfortably either.
I hope C gets her treatment sorted and feels better soon. As for your hubby’s birthday its good you complained and the hotel sorted the issue out.
We need to scan which has been over 3 weeks in waiting for an appointment, and still nothing today. I felt I had to complain as honestly was awful
So glad you wrote to the hotel directly and was compensated for especially since you paid a lot of money in the first place. Glad C likes her new bed as well
It had to be done, and they did redeem themselves, but was it just because we had complained. I hope that they realise and this has made them up their customer service to all guests. She loves it and it does see very comfortable