How many hats?

Am just sitting down after a very busy day, and was thinking how many jobs us mums do on a daily/weekly basis, plus all the extra little things we do.

Off the top of my head here are a few I do without thinking about

Cook

I prepare breakfast, lunch and dinners every day, plus make bread, cakes, biscuits etc as extras to the daily food preparation

Cleaner

Clean the house, there is always hoovering, mopping, dusting, kitchen to clean, bathroom to clean

Housekeeper

Have grouped, the food shopping, washing, ironing, changing beds etc into this category

Book-keeper/Accountant

Paying bills, budgeting etc

Taxi Driver

There are the school runs, driving the kids to their friends, parties or any other social event they need taking too

PA

Running their diaries, for sleepover, parties, school assemblies, school trips, days out

Peacekeeper

If you have more than two children, you are always having to referee arguments and fights

Nurse

It is always Mum they want when they are ill, and we try to do our best to make them better

counsellor

When they come home from school, and have had an argument with their friend, and it is the end of the world

We do all this and more, daily without even thinking about it.  Plus today I have also been a labourer, moving gravel from the front to the back garden and photographers assistant, as my husband was trying different lighting.

It is no wonder us mums, are stressed and tired at the end of the day

Do not ever let anyone make you feel bad for just being a mum, just remember how many hats you where in a day.

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  1. Tori Gabriel
    26th Sep 2015 / 9:39 am

    We really are “Mum’s of all trades”. You missed waitress, seamstress, negotiator, chief buyer, personal shopper….LOL. Still THE best job ever.

    • admin
      26th Sep 2015 / 2:29 pm

      How could I have missed those as well, I would not change being a Mum for anything 🙂 x

  2. Daniella
    17th Nov 2015 / 12:37 pm

    I keep telling my husband he couldn’t afford to pay someone to do my jobs each time he asks if I’d rather not have a full time 9-5 job. Erm Nope!

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 12:45 pm

      I know if would cost a fortune to pay someone to do everything we do day in and day out x

  3. 17th Nov 2015 / 1:33 pm

    How true parents really are like taxis and all of the other groups. I have never thought of parenthood in that way!

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 2:07 pm

      The role of a parent has many hats, and there are probably more that I have missed off

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 2:07 pm

      It is a very busy role, but very rewarding too x

  4. 17th Nov 2015 / 1:44 pm

    I am tired from reading all of this and probably do the exact same without kids for my hubby and three cats! x

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 2:08 pm

      Oh yes husbands are just like big kids anyway, and I have one cat and a dog and they are a nightmare as well x

  5. Natasha Mairs
    17th Nov 2015 / 1:58 pm

    mum’s are superheroes in my opinion. We can do anything and do it all at the same time

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 2:08 pm

      We are superheroes you are right 🙂 x

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 8:00 pm

      It certainly is, Dads do a good job too but would not be able to run things and remember things like us mums x

  6. 17th Nov 2015 / 5:38 pm

    I agree with all you have said especially the peace maker bit. I am forever separating my two.

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 7:59 pm

      I am lucky now the kid are older, can actually be together without the bickering and sit in the car without annoying each other x

  7. 17th Nov 2015 / 7:15 pm

    It is amazing all the things you have to become in a life time, no matter what you really should be doing. x

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 7:58 pm

      I know, we really do work very hard x

  8. Cathy Glynn
    17th Nov 2015 / 7:31 pm

    I couldn’t have put it better my self, how on earth do we find time for ourselves x

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 7:58 pm

      I know it is really quite scary when you suddenly realise what you do actually do without even thinking x

  9. Renna
    17th Nov 2015 / 8:33 pm

    Teacher and entertainer!!
    And a complete nutjob too!! Hahaha
    The word parent means so much more than just one word.

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 11:04 pm

      Oh yes you are so right x

  10. 17th Nov 2015 / 9:33 pm

    Mums are so busy and they do so many things! That’s why we love them and that’s why I thing mine’s a superhero.

    • admin
      17th Nov 2015 / 11:04 pm

      Us Mums are busy, but it is our nature and something we just do naturally

  11. wendy
    17th Nov 2015 / 11:01 pm

    I totally hear where you’re coming from, as I’m exactly the same! Cook, teacher, peace negotiator when they’re arguing, cleaner, to name just a few.
    If you were to pay us for all the different jobs we did we’d be very rich indeed! 🙂

  12. whatlauraloves
    18th Nov 2015 / 3:59 am

    I guess theres far more to the job title than just mother! xxx

    • admin
      18th Nov 2015 / 6:57 am

      There is we are just heros 🙂

  13. Ickle Pickle
    18th Nov 2015 / 10:11 am

    It is the hardest, lowest paid, most underrated job in the world. But also the best, most rewarding, most amazing job EVER! Kaz x

    • admin
      18th Nov 2015 / 10:12 am

      It is the best job in the world, and I wouldn’t change it one bit x

  14. 18th Nov 2015 / 2:18 pm

    I once read an interesting article about how much it would actually cost to pay someone to do all the jobs that a mum does on a day to day basis and it was loads! Not an easy job..

    • admin
      18th Nov 2015 / 4:21 pm

      I dread to think how much it would cost x

  15. 18th Nov 2015 / 2:41 pm

    You’ve really bought it home to me just how much we have to juggle. It’s a bit of a thankless task isn’t it, as everyone just expects us to smooth everything over

    • admin
      18th Nov 2015 / 4:21 pm

      I know it is quite amazing when you sit and think about what you actually do, and if you didn’t do it the whole house can’t cope

    • admin
      18th Nov 2015 / 8:59 pm

      I know and never a day off

  16. Aimee Foster
    18th Nov 2015 / 8:12 pm

    Brilliant post – I’ve never really seen all of a mum’s tasks listed like that before. It certainly does make you realise everything we cram into a day! x

    • admin
      18th Nov 2015 / 8:58 pm

      I know it is quite scary when you read it all, and there are probably loads more I have left off

  17. 19th Nov 2015 / 9:46 am

    I was actually expecting a post about hats. 🙂 This is so true! x

    • admin
      19th Nov 2015 / 10:08 am

      Sorry, but it was the best way to title the post. We do so many different roles

  18. 19th Nov 2015 / 11:24 pm

    Oh yes, and this is all even before we find any “me” time… if there is any time left

    • admin
      19th Nov 2015 / 11:34 pm

      I know, me time is usually bedtime x

  19. Zara Lipstixx
    21st Nov 2015 / 7:30 pm

    Indeed many many hats, my mum wore many too. Mum’s are superheros really 🙂

    • admin
      21st Nov 2015 / 9:21 pm

      It comes with the role of being a Mum life is never the same again x

  20. Laura Haley
    26th Jul 2016 / 9:39 pm

    Yep, mums definitely do a lot of different jobs. I’ll never understand why some employers don’t see women with children as a massive asset, because they blooming are!

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 11:41 am

      They are a huge asset, and it is a shame some employers take it for granted x

  21. 27th Jul 2016 / 7:31 am

    Women in general wear a lot of hats but we sure take for granted all that mum’s do especially when we’re younger!

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 11:40 am

      Totally agree x

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 11:39 am

      Mums do seem to be very busy, congratulations for 3 months time x

  22. Jo
    27th Jul 2016 / 1:02 pm

    A talented bunch of people, us mums! You’ve hit the nail on the head (or should that be hat?)

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 1:23 pm

      We are very talented 🙂 x

  23. 27th Jul 2016 / 2:39 pm

    It’s so true! I always think I wear a lot of hats as a full-time blogger too – cook, writer, photographer, coder, secretary… there’s so much involved!

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 3:06 pm

      Oh yes all these as well, I am sure if we all sat down and made a list together we would be shocked at just how much we all do in a day x

  24. 27th Jul 2016 / 7:13 pm

    Never underestimate a parent, it’s the worst thing you can do ha. Multitasking at it’s finest!

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 9:31 pm

      Haha very true x

  25. 27th Jul 2016 / 8:58 pm

    Mums are incredible and completely under-appreciated! Well done, you’re doing a fab job 🙂

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 9:30 pm

      Thank you 🙂 x

  26. 27th Jul 2016 / 9:01 pm

    So try, even being a blogger you wear hats of writer, proof reader, scheduler, designer etc x

    • admin
      27th Jul 2016 / 9:30 pm

      I know, it is amazing just how many we wear everyday I dread to think how long the list would be if we sat down and listed everything

  27. 28th Jul 2016 / 12:48 am

    We need to juggle so much on a daily basis as mothers, it’s hard work to keep up with everything.

    • admin
      28th Jul 2016 / 10:20 am

      It is hard work, but I bet none of us would change it x

  28. 28th Jul 2016 / 2:57 am

    Ahh, these jobs can definitely be overwhelming at times. It’s crazy how many skills you acquire through parenting.

    • admin
      28th Jul 2016 / 10:20 am

      They certainly can, I used parenting as I am a parent but applies to everyone really we never realise just how many hats we juggle each day x

  29. Jenna Von
    28th Jul 2016 / 1:09 pm

    This is totally right! I’m not even a mum but I have been a support worker and even said this about my own job. People assume mums just do nothing and don’t appreciate they actually do everything! As you said, never feel belittled because all parents have a very hard job x

    • admin
      28th Jul 2016 / 1:30 pm

      Thank you, for everything we have to do, the rewards outweigh it all though x

  30. Jessica McDonnell
    28th Jul 2016 / 7:41 pm

    This is a really interesting post. Sometimes we take for granted the role of our parents – they do so much.

    • admin
      29th Jul 2016 / 9:49 am

      We do take parents for granted, but that shows just how great your parents are x

  31. 28th Jul 2016 / 7:47 pm

    This list is very true! Us parents are great with what we do, a lot of people think parents don’t do much but there is so much to do whilst you’re a parent

    • admin
      29th Jul 2016 / 9:48 am

      I think people think it is just an excuse to say you are a parent, but even as a parent you really don’t realise just how much you do each day, on top of normal things x

  32. 29th Jul 2016 / 1:37 am

    Theres definitely plenty of roles within the mam job description! Lots of hard work xxx

    • admin
      29th Jul 2016 / 9:43 am

      It is hard work but also very rewarding x

  33. Hannah
    29th Jul 2016 / 8:03 pm

    It’s insane how much stuff mums do – my mum never stops!

    • admin
      30th Jul 2016 / 1:10 pm

      I know but we all love it 🙂

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